This is once again an example of conjunction confusion.  These terms are used constantly in conversation (at least my own) and often incorrectly.  The best way to know if the right terms are being used, our favorite rule is to, BREAK IT DOWN.

Incorrect:  I’m carpooling with you, aren’t I?

Correct: I’m carpooling with you, am I not?

Reading both sentences aloud it may seem like that’s not quite right.  I’m not being “Holier than Thou” in the correct sentence.  Scout’s honor.  To prove it, let’s look at the breakdown.

Incorrect: I’m carpooling with you, are not I?

Correct: I’m carpooling with you, am I not?

Read both versions aloud this time.  When the conjunction “aren’t” is broken down to its truest form, it really doesn’t belong in the sentence at all.  All conjunction confusion is best remedied by breaking it down.

*Pops locks for good grammar.*

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